I have a huge, ever-growing crush on one of the RAs in my building, and it's driving me C-R-A-Z-Y! How does one go about approaching a semi-authority figure for a date? And is that girl I've seen him with (twice) his girlfriend or not? He was my friend Stephen's roommate last year, who promises that he's a really nice guy. Plus he's cute... Actually he's not that cute, I have no idea why I have such a thing for him. He's really tall, and he always has these bags under his eyes like he's tired all the time. For some reason it's very appealing. Anyway, this is a big deal for me because I rarely get "crushes" on people anymore. It's usually more a question of whether I want to get a guy into bed, and if I do, whether I can get him to buy me a drink first. So the fact that I'm getting all googly over a guy who's not even that hot in the first place is significant. Does this mean... (gasp!) that I want committment
? Someone to call me "baby" and open stubborn spaghetti sauce bottles? And if so, would it be too much like high school to ask Stephen to set me up?